The Hottest Girl at the Cocktail Party
The hottest girl at the cocktail party knows the secret:
The secret ingredient is ease, in the way she moves and in the way she wears her clothes. And even if she’s going out on a limb, taking a stylish risk — it’s a little one.
You see this girl at every gathering, the one whose hair is a little tousled, whose shoes don’t seem to hurt. She’s not tugging at her skirt or sneaking peeks in shiny surfaces to see if her Spanx are showing.
Hot girls often play up contrasting elements. If they’re wearing a feminine dress, they add a tailored jacket or mannish shoes. They may wear a bohemian blouse with something structured like a pencil skirt, a minidress with a maxi-coat, an austere style with whimsical heels. If their look is polished, they shake out their hair.
How can the perennially pressed magically develop this sense of ease? Pockets are good — in pants, a full skirt or a relaxed dress. You look more comfortable when your hands have a home. Avoid anything skin tight. It’s impossible to project confidence when you can’t sit down.
The best advice of all:
Don’t try to be perfect. Confidence may just come from embracing our imperfections. When you look too perfect, it’s kind of scary because it means you spent too much time .Imperfection makes you more human and also more intriguing. You open a door for a story to tell.
Written by: Kawish Randhawa Jutt
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